NO TIMELINE

There is no specific age to do something. It’s just that sometimes we try to put ourselves the pressure because we simply feel that we have to keep up with everyone else and therefore we get baffled between two questions : Should we live the life we want or live with what others find right?

There is no timeline and we are not supposed to follow each other.

Moreover, there is no reason to feel ashamed! And it’s not because we have a different perception of how we see life, that merely means it’s a sin!!! However, the act of making our targets attached to a timeline and feel stressed by asking ourselves of why I can’t do it? Because this person and that person did it at this stage of age, and unfortunately at that time we start to cause a pernicious effect to our physical and mental health.

We all were never asked to move towards the same goals and achievements. In contrast, we were born free to do whatever we see right for us. Here is one of the powerful statements that I cherish a lot “Why do you enslave people when they were born free?” - Umar Ibn Al Khattab (RA).

We are all allowed to make our own priorities, to find our own paths, to seek our own happiness, to be selfish at some point when we are in a situation where we just have two options: white or black and there is absolutely nothing between them. We are all allowed to learn, what matters is OUR INNER VOICE and not what others do or how much it took them to do, if we really believe in it.

Our successes and failures are part of our daily life which describe of who we are today!

Our strengths and weaknesses are part of our human being.

It’s ok, if you can’t link your life’s stages to your age, rather enjoy each moment of it as much as you can and create your happiness because no one will help you to tackle all the difficulties you survive except YOU and only YOU. So please, don’t allow anyone to judge your life and it’s ok if we live differently!!

From Sara with love ❤